How To Text Him Or Her Back Module 7
In this part of my Text Your Ex Back review, I’m looking at module 7, which is about building rapport.
Who would’ve thought that by bringing up memories of your relationship, you could get your ex interested in you?
Well me, for one, because we all want to re-create the warm, happy times we’ve had.
And let’s face it, if there’s even a hint of warmth towards you from your ex, you stand a chance of blowing the embers into a burning fire of passion – particularly if you show how you’ve changed.
And that’s true whether you broke up or they broke up with you. So – on to …..
Texting “Best Of The Relationship” Text Messages
Text Your Ex eBook has loads of texting examples that focus on the best of what you had with your ex lover.
These are all about what you had in common, what you did together, what made your relationship good in the times when it was good.
You’re going to paint a picture, describe a scene, start with a small “ask”, and then build up the intensity in a way that matches how your ex responds.
And once again, you are not on your own! Michael Fiore, author ofText Your Ex Back, is right with you here – showing you what to do, how to do it, when to do it, with hundreds of text examples in the eBook…. (and it’s all on the Text Your Ex Back MP3 and the Text Your Ex Back eBook as well).
In this stage of the program, you’re trying to plant positive thoughts and emotions in your ex’s mind so they start thinking about you in a positive way.
And emotional language makes those good times feel as real as possible… but you’re not trying to get your ex back yet – or, more accurately, you’re not looking for a face-to-face meeting yet.
After all, you’ve only just started trying to plant positive thoughts in your ex’s mind!
As Mike Fiore, author of Text Your Ex Back says, Best Of The Relationship texts are about focusing on past experiences using POSITIVE emotional language and DETAIL .
The Text Judo idea here is about making your ex feel positive, not negative, towards you.
It’s a combination of power words, memory stimulation, building word pictures, and putting it together using sneaky tricks like “the small ask”. Know what that is? If not, Text Your Ex Back will reveals all!
But I’ll give you a clue. First, remember you’ve already built rapport.
Here’s an example of a “best of the relationship” text from Sarah to her ex-boyfriend: “Hey, really quick, can you remind me of the name of that restaurant we went to on your 30th birthday?”
Now, do you see why that’s so powerful at building rapport?
No? Are you kidding me? You might find that improving youremotional intelligence helps! Maybe really do need this program!
The cool thing about the “Can you remind me” setup is that it draws your ex in and gets them actively engaged in the memory.
Now, since TEXT YOUR EX BACK provides loads of SMS formatted messages to text your ex – though you can think up your own, too! – you can easily go away and work your magic with a top-secret, sneaky text that’s very powerful indeed.
Read on below to find out how you can do this! The Text Your Ex eBook has all the answers!
Module 8 The Green Eyed Monster:
Texting Your Ex Back And Jealousy
Wow…. this is where you use jealousy as a positive force!
Yes, you bet. A POSITIVE FORCE.
This is going to get your ex thinking about how much they feel for you.
But though it’s quite subtle, it’s also extremely powerful – so care is needed when you do it.
Let’s get Mike Fiore’s words on this part of Text Your Ex Back: “When other people like you, and hit on you, your ex begins to realize what they lost. A horrible pang of jealousy may well make them doubt the whole ‘breakup’ thing.”
Of course, this actually works a lot better if it’s not a lie. You actually should be dating other people – even if it’s the most ‘mellow’ kind of dating. And once your ex knows what you’re doing, they’re gonna wonder if they made a mistake.
Actually they’re going to wonder if they made a mistake if you set the situation up correctly.
As Mike says in this module of Text Your Ex Back, you use a bit of jealousy, not massive sauce of green-eyed monster. So you carefully let your ex know about the positive aspects of your post-breakup life, and at the same time you can subtly turn the screws on their heart.
Fortunately, Text Your Ex Back gives you go all the information you need to get both the content and timing of these texts spot on.
And it also provides good responses for you to send back to your ex when they respond to you – no matter how they respond (warm or cold!).
To sum it up – you’ll be amazed at the impact this can have – and this texting lark is heading straight for damn’ serious territory anytime now. In fact, it gets serious with the next module – but in a good way!
If you want to TEXT YOUR EX BACK, this is the way to go, bro’, sister!
Read on for the next exciting step in the Text Your Ex eBook – and don’t forget – it’s all on MP3 and video as well if you prefer to hear the examples and listen to a description of how to use the system.
A therapist on jealousy. See what comes next in the Text Your Ex Back eBook in the next post!