9 – Planting The Seeds: Intimacy Booster Texts
Intimacy booster texts mean you’re really getting somewhere. And they also mean that Text Your Ex Back is about to get seriously real.
Intimacy booster texts are about showing emotional support for your ex – and that you still care for them.
It’s the next stage in a gradual progression from more-or-less saying “hi” to saying “I still love you…”
There are several formulas you can use, but the essence is not being needy or aggressive, but rather showing your support is available if your ex wants it.
This module has several pages of vital information about how to pitch your texts in a way that’s not threatening but will make your ex see you as someone they really want back in their life.
By following the plan in text your ex back, you’re reminding your ex of how close you guys once were – and planting the seed of the idea that you could be just as close again.
You can do that because this is a step by step approach, establishing contact as gently as possible, instilling the beginnings of positive feelings in your ex, and handling any negativity with “Text Judo”.
You’re strong, you’re playing your cards right, and you’re ready for the next step in this Text Your Ex Back review.
Your goal is to remind your ex by text message of the intimacy and connection you once had, but in a positive way. You want your ex to almost YEARN for the close support you provided for them.
In a subtle way, you want them to subconsciously come to realize that they don’t want to live without you, that they can’t live without you.
The way to do this is NOT to say, “You can’t live without me” (no surprise there!) or vice versa, but to actually make yourself useful to your ex in a way that nobody else could.
The best thing about it? You can do it all with texting. Do you know how that might happen?
Well, here is just one text your ex back example of how you might do this.
If you knew your ex was having a hard time, for example, you could text: “Hey, I know [WHATEVER STRESSFUL EVENT THEY’RE GOING THROUGH] is tough for you. If you need me, I’m here.”
The key is to bring up the stressful event gently and then show that you are supportive – but to do it with NO STRINGS ATTACHED. That’s really important.
Obviously, you’re doing this with the hope of winning your ex back, but your support and love have to be genuine.
Still wondering if TEXT YOUR EX BACK will work for you? Check out this example – in blue print – provided by Mike Fiore of texting. It’s another extract from the module:
Your Emotional Honesty texts can really be broken down to a few different categories:
1. Compliment texts
2. Appreciation texts
3. “How I Feel” texts
4. “What I Miss” texts
(I know, I know. The guys reading this are groaning already. Get over it. If you want her back, you’ve got to be willing to speak your heart. You know you’ve got one. So use it, OK?)
Text Your Ex Back claims this technique is particularly effective for GUYS texting GIRLS, by the way.
That’s because women LOVE IT when a guy actually cracks his emotional armor and opens up!
In fact, this one technique alone could be the thing that gets her to ask to see you.
Now, this may sound simple. And in a way, it is. But you’re tapping into the deepest parts of your ex’s mind with your text messages.
You’re accessing their unconscious mind, their deepest needs, and their awareness of what brought you together in the first place. And that is powerful stuff.
All you need now is to establish a better relationship – with Mike Fiore’s help!
Video – getting back with an ex
Module 10 of Text Your Ex Back develops the idea of Emotional Honesty Texts, and then moves on to ways you can make your ex want you (emotionally and physically) by using attraction texts.
Sexting and texting by Mike Fiore
Emotional Honesty Texts
Text Your Ex Back gives you texts to use on both women and men, and provides plenty of examples.
Emotional Honesty texts are about making a real connection.
Once again, it’s all set out for you in the Text Your Ex (Girlfriend or Boyfriend) Back program so nothing is left to chance! Here’s what Mike Fiore says:
“Sometimes you just have to cut the past the bullshit and tell your ex how you really feel. And that time is now. No excuses, no blaming, no fighting, no crap. You just take out your cell phone (and with your thumb shaking and lip quivering, sure) tell your ex THE TRUTH. If you do it right, the text formulas I’ve given you in this manual will really establish emotional connection… And since you’re texting, you don’t have to worry about getting cold feet, tripping over your words, breaking down crying, or rolling over into anger or embarrassment. Why? Because texting is PRIVATE, safe, and simple.”
Great work, Mike Fiore!
One obvious key to using Emotional Honesty texts is to keep things positive.
Emotional Honesty, as reviewed in this program, is not about airing dirty laundry or patching up that last fight (see diagram above!)
This is about redirecting your ex’s emotions into positive territory.
No beating yourself up in these texts, either. After a break up or divorce, you can apologize for actual bad behavior (and should OWN that behavior) but you should not rake yourself over the coals or come across as if you don’t like yourself.
This is where the “I Like Myself Game” comes into play.
If you can own a mistake without wallowing in it, that shows confidence, maturity, and all the good stuff that makes someone want to be with you.
As always, Text Your Ex Back reviews loads of examples of how you can do this. Nothing is left to chance – you are not on your own, you’ll know exactly what to text and when.
Here’s Mike again, once more writing in the Text Your Ex Back EBook:
So which of these do you think would work best? As a text message of reconciliation with your ex partner?
John: “I can barely breathe without you. I feel like an elephant is standing on my chest right now and I’m going to die if I don’t see you. Why aren’t you here? Don’t you understand that I LOVE you? COME BACK.”
Mary: “No matter what, there’s always going to be a part of me that’s in love with you. When I think about you I can’t help but smile. I feel this great energy just flow through me and it makes me happy that you’re out there in the world.”
I think the answer is obvious! Qualities of a good text SMS message for recovering your lost one, according to Mike Fiore:
- not at all needy
- not (obviously) manipulative.
You are saying how you actually feel about them, not what you like about them….. (I feel loving towards you; I like the way you smile at me. Get the difference?)
Attraction texts turn up the heat, and get your ex back to thinking about you….in all ways, including sexually.
And this is OK, because your ex will be reacting to Emotional Honesty texts very positively, and so you are making great progress… and two more techniques will see you well on your way.
And, yes, of course you can be suggestive and even a little sexy, but you need to be respectful and honest…
Texting Your Ex Girlfriend Or Ex Boyfriend Back – How To Do It!
Let’s hear it in Mike’s words once more:
“There’s something VERY intimate about texting. It’s almost like telepathy. You can see more at www.textyourwifeintobed.com – a great resource for all kinds of people, including those who are texting their ex back and those who are not…. yes, it can be used by people in established relationships to make things hotter!”
And while your ex might be turned on if you use the text messages in the Text Your Ex Back eBook, this is really about showing them you understand them and are right alongside them.
Which is great if you’re a man trying to show a woman those things! And if you’re a woman – well, this will show you how a man’s mind works.
Either way, you could end up with your hearts racing at the thought of each other…..
But Surely Texting…
…isn’t just about sexting?
No, this isn’t about texting your ex back for the sake of sex… AND at the same time you can take this to any level you choose… all your options are explained in the Text Your Ex Back manual.
And that means you can go from PG to XXX in the virtual world!
Maybe you’re thinking “Oh no, I could never do that.” Well, you can.
I’ve read this program from start to finish and I have seen how it takes you step by step through increasing levels of intimacy.
By the time you get to Module 10, Text Your Ex Back will have shown you precisely how to respond to anything you get back from your ex by text message – you’re on firm ground, and you know they’re interested. You’re on to a “dead cert.”
Let’s face it – telling your old partner what you really miss and what you really appreciated about them BY TEXT with an honest, open, NON MANIPULATIVE approach is going to change their attitude towards you. For the better. Texting is POWERFUL!
And at some point you can ask them out. That’s the most exciting stage of the TEXT YOUR EX BACK PROGRAM – knowing that, at some point, you’re going to meet them again – and then build a whole new relationship.
Finally: Text Your Ex Back tells you what you do when you get a “yes” – that is, a yes to the question about having a real date.
I’m not going to reveal that – to find out, you’ll have to buy the program!